My dear Father, Singye |
The
‘Father’ is a main stand of the family. You meant a lot to me and all the
siblings. Being a father, you contributed lot and lots of things for the family
last numerous decades and hoping for the same henceforth. When I was young, the
condition at our home was pathetic, which was unraveled by you, my dear father.
You worked hard and tried to earn little amount of money from contributing
labour to constructions sites either of private, cooperation and government
organizations. You are my god, my dear father.
Back to
late 1980s and early 1990s, you were engaged in some important works in western
Bhutan, where you contributed labour force to the nation. You worked hard and
your hard-earned money was poured on me and other siblings in different fields.
You served the nation as a peasant for the betterment of our family.
In the crack
of dawn of 1996, I was sent to the village based school to learn modern
education to make my life better. You never thought of keeping me illiterate
like other friends. Your contributions in various ways made my life happy
today. When I think back to the past, I can’t imagine of our pathetic
conditions at our home. We were group of nine including you, my father, mother
and grandmother. Now, with your hard work collaboration with mother altered our
pathetic family life to somewhat better than that of the past. This is you, who
managed the family life to lead day to day living.
My
sincere gratitude goes to you, my dear father. Your advices and supports are
still imbedded in my mind which I will not forget at all. For me, you are god,
to all our family, you are god too. We have always considered you as god for
our family and have faith in you, we always trust you in everything that you
decide. Whatever you did to me was tremendous and cannot forget in my life. This
will remain in my life forever without any alteration.
Today, I
can read, write, speak and understand some languages. I can also feel the difference
between past and present, my knowledge on various things are increasing day
after day. I can communicate with people of different types. This is product of
you, my dear father. It’s all due to your unwavering love and care for me. Your
love and care for me will be always rewarded with my love and care.
For many
years, I underwent various stages of studies that were fully and partially
sponsored by you. Your selfless support for last several years is fantastic and
I am sure that you didn’t even take rest to earn to make my life bright with
education. Your hard-earned money that you invested in my studies were
uncountable and cannot be paid back, but I am always keeping in mind that I
would be most dedicated son hereafter. You and mother’s entire life will be
nurtured with love and care.
When I heard
of news that states you are sick and suffering from some kind of sickness, my
heart get pinched and tears from my eyes are uncontrollable. I cannot hide it.
Though, I being unemployed, I am not able to help you all in terms of anything
but I am keeping in mind to help you all selflessly. Don't mind for my failure
to help you and look after you when you are in need of help.
Hereafter,
every day and night, you are remembered. I always pray for your good life and
extended peace and happiness come on your life. When things get wrong with me,
I am thinking about you and your advice and intellectual support that I got it
prior to.
Under
your guidance, I have learned many things in terms of village based culture and
traditions, our etiquettes and decorum. I am happy to born as your son and will
always pray for next generations too. This is my unfathomable prayers and
wishes that I am always offering to the god and goddess beyond the existence
circle.
Therefore,
I will never forget you for making my life affirmative and activist. So, Thank
You, Father for everything that you deed to me.
God
always bless you, my beloved Father. Long live my beloved Father.
Yours
Loving Son
(Dendup
Gyembo)
Paro, Western Bhutan